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September 18, 2015

| by The TallTrees

What is Holding you Back from Feeling that You Deserve Better?

Are you really taking good care of yourself? Maybe, deep down, you believe that you don’t deserve better.

It may not even be conscious …

You Deserve BetterPerhaps you felt that you had to lower your potential, in order to get the approval from your brother or sister, because otherwise they would resent you. Unconsciously, you might feel like you don’t deserve to be successful.

Or maybe you struggled in school, not because you weren’t smart enough, but you were too intelligent. You had a hard time fitting in, and because of that you didn’t turn in assignments or procrastinated and waited to do them until the very last minute because you knew that it wouldn’t be your best quality.

Fitting in meant playing small…

Many veterans who’ve come back after losing a friend while fighting overseas feel guilty — they don’t feel that they deserve to be happy and have abundance in their life.

Why Does The Word ‘Deserve’ Stop so Many People?

What does it mean to be “deserving”? What type of life do you see yourself living? What has been holding you back from that?

Think about ‘deserving’ like this: to serve. Are you serving others? If so, than you can easily say “I deserve …”

Do You Honestly Value Yourself?

Can you authentically say “I AM a gift to the world!”? Is it uncomfortable or easy and natural?

When you GET it, like in your bones and down to your heart and soul, then it’s so easy because you recognize it in everyone.

There’s no ego in it, just pure, unconditional love.

Yes, You Deserve to be Wealthy … Healthy … Loved … Abundant … Happy!

So if you find yourself in a less than healthy and ideal situation, take a moment and ask yourself:

  1. How does this relate to your feelings of self-worth and self-love?
  2. In what ways are you responsible for creating the reality that you are currently living?

After you ask, and can answer, those two questions you then need to move onto creating a new experience for yourself:

  • How do you want to be living? In other words, what would you want instead?
  • How can you include more self-love into your daily experience?

Master Your Mind -- The Power of WindYou Can Create a Better Life.

Start by being aware of how you treat yourself. You can pray, meditate, practice gratitude, affirmations, and ask your inner guidance for help.

You must first love yourself and the rest of the world will undoubtedly follow. It’s an ‘inside job.’ Always remember that you deserve better!

You deserve better! What has been holding you back from abundance in your life?

This article was inspired by Days 18 and 21 of the Miracle Mindshift. If you’re tired of settling for less, why wait? Begin your Miracle Mindshift now!

 

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June 6, 2015

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

What’s the Gift of Alzheimer’s?

This week Coach Dave and I spoke with Maggie La Tourelle, who is a writer, speaker, therapist and educator in holistic healthcare and wellbeing. She’s also the author of the book The Gift of Alzheimer’s: New Insights into the Potential of Alzheimer’s and its Care.

She shared the wonderful experiences and discoveries she made during her mother’s journey with Alzheimer’s, which Maggie describes as a “beautiful journey.”

When was the last time you heard someone refer to “The Gifts of Alzheimers” or it as a beautiful journey?

It’s more common to refer to Alzheimer’s as a tragedy and equally negative terms. Which is understandable. The person you knew before dementia usually disappears, and there are many losses associated with this.

The Gift of Alzheimer's: New Insights Into the Potential of Alzheimer's and Its Care Happy & Healthy Caregiver Webinar

Maggie shared her discoveries, including…

  • How her mother was able to surrender to the now and released her fear of death…
  • The power of emotional memory and how new emotional memories continue even in the last stages of Alzheimer’s…
  • How her mother found unconditional love and shared it with Maggie for the first time in Maggie’s life…
  • How they found the true source of happiness and love…
  • The transformation of both her mother’s final years and Maggie’s perspective on individual truth and awareness…

And more!

You can listen to the whole replay of this amazing hour we spent by signing up at www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com/webinar

Her book The Gift of Alzheimer’s: New Insights into the Potential of Alzheimer’s and its Care combines conversations Maggie and her mother had with Maggie’s insights and explanations. She explains what’s happening, and also gives specific examples of how to react to someone with dementia in unconditional love and acceptance.

And it also has an extensive reference section!

This book is an important affordable resource for family and professional caregivers of those living with dementia.

To your Happy&Healthy Caregiving,

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Ina Gilmore, M.D.

“The Knitting Dr.”

Founder, www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com and www.TheKnittingYarn.com

Ambassador of Caregiving at www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

P.S. One of the most delightful surprises of the webinar was how Maggie discussed many of the same things we talk about in our Mastering Caregiving Program. Check it out at www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com/programs

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May 22, 2015

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

Why Can Remembering and Reminsicing Transform Caregiving One Memory At a Time?

Holidays like Mother’s Day, Father’s Day and Memorial Day can stimulate memories, or longings.

And sometimes it’s events or days not usually associated with memories that are the hardest.

Why?

Well, it’s because they can catch you unprepared. With an official holiday that’s associated with memories, you may have some warning that it’s coming.

How Can Remembering and Reminsicing Transform Caregiving One Memory At a Time?

When I was young, Memorial Day was an important holiday. I grew up near a town that was one of the ones starting the practice of Memorial Day after the Civil War. Oh, it never got official recognition from the federal government for founding the day. That honor went to a different town.

Still, it was a time that families would gather at cemeteries to place flowers on graves, or to plant them. And even if your family didn’t have anyone to honor, it was a time to notice the care and love others showed.

Reminiscing after the caregiving ends can give you great comfort. And like many parts of caregiving, it can also lead to intense sorrow. Focusing on the negative aspects of memories—“what if” or the “if only”—can lead to more and more pain and sorrow. While focusing on happy memories, on those moments of joy and love can lead to happiness and comfort.

Creating those happy memories while caregiving can be challenging with everything you already do. It can also be a comfort, and make your caregiving easier while reducing caregiver stress. Reminiscing can do the same. Reminiscing be allowing your carereceiver to share the memories she recalls, even if someone else thinks they’re “wrong.” We explain further in our free webinar…

Remember and Reminisce in Caregiving

In our webinar Remember and Reminisce With Purpose: Transforming Caregiving One Memory At a Time we show you…

  • Steps you can take long before the caregiving ends to keep the good memories alive and to share them…
  • The power of changing from focusing on remembering to reminiscing in you carereceiver and how it can reduce caregiver stress and…
  • Suggestions for how to preserve memories that can be started while caregiving, and final editing and preservation can be done afterwards.

The replay is available now. Just Click Here Now to Save Your Seat for the next webinar and to get instant access to previous ones. And be sure to listen to the entire webinar, because we have a special gift for you at the end.

We’re here to help you make your caregiving Happy&Healthy.

To your Happy&Healthy Caregiving,

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Ina Gilmore, M.D.

Founder, CaregivingWithPurpose.com and TheKnittingYarn.com

Ambassador of Caregiving at www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

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February 25, 2015

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

How Did Julianne Moore Highlight the Isolation of Alzheimer’s at Oscars?

On Sunday, Julianne Moore won the Best Actress Oscar for her role as Alice Howland in “Still Alice.”

After accepting her award, she used the spotlight to highlight the isolation of Alzheimer’s disease and raise awareness. She said, “I’m thrilled that we were able to shine a light on Alzheimer’s disease. So many people who have this disease feel marginalized. People who have Alzheimer’s disease deserve to be seen so we can find a cure.”

Julianne Moore Highlights Isolation of Alzheimer's at Oscars for Still Alice

It’s caregivers, carereceivers and their loved ones who often find Alzheimer’s disease isolating and feel marginalized.

Ms. Moore reportedly spent 4 months researching the role with persons with Alzheimer’s disease.

Today over 5 million Americans live with Alzheimer’s. And that number is expected to rise to 16 million by 2050. In the film, Alice Howland had Early Onset Alzheimers, which is diagnosed before age 65. In the U.S. there are an estimated 200,000 people with Early Onset.

Alzheimer’s disease is the most common form of dementia. And the article Alzheimer’s Symptoms: What Are the 7 A’s of Dementia? describes 7 signs and symptoms of dementia.

To your Happy&Healthy Caregiving,

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Ina Gilmore, M.D.

“The Knitting Dr.”

Founder, www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com and www.TheKnittingYarn.com

Ambassador of Caregiving at www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

P.S. For simple solutions to the isolation of dementia and caregiving join our free monthly webinars at www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com/webinar

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February 5, 2015

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

What Makes a Caregiver?

There are over 65 million caregivers in the U.S. who touch the lives of their carereceivers.

Peter Rosenberger has three decades of experience as a family caregiver. And he sums up why caregivers give care beautifully in this quote.

Hope for the Caregiver Book and Quote

“If you love somebody, you will be a caregiver.

If you live long enough, you’ll need one.”

Peter Rosenberger

His book Hope for the Caregiver: Encouraging Words to Strengthen Your Spirit is now available in Kindle at a very low price.

Don’t have a Kindle? Amazon supplies free apps to read it on your computer or cell phone.

To your Happy&Healthy Caregiving,

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Ina Gilmore, M.D.

“The Knitting Dr.”

Founder, www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com and www.TheKnittingYarn.com
Ambassador of Caregiving at www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

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December 6, 2014

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

Caregiving With Purpose Nominated for Best Health Blog

The editors of Healthline chose Caregiving With Purpose for the third year as one of the Top 20 Alzheimer’s and Dementia Blogs in 2014. And now they’ve nominated it for Best Health Blog of 2014.

Healthline has an annual contest for Best Health Blog. The top 3 blogs are featured on Healthline for an entire year, and they get a prize. This is an opportunity to raise awareness for caregiving and dementia. Caregivers are among the most silent of the “silent majority” and the ones who often feel alone and need support.

Did you know that many caregivers don’t see themselves as caregivers?

Instead they see themselves as adult children or grandchildren, spouses, siblings, parents and grandparents. And raising awareness about them involves not only alerting others to their situations, but also getting them to realize they’re caregivers.

And caring for someone with dementia—whether it’s Alzheimer’s disease or something else—is even more challenging.

Why?

Because you are dealing with changes in your carereceiver’s personality, thinking and communication. And they can be continually changing as your carereceiver’s dementia progresses.

How can you help?

Caregiving With Purpose Nominated for Best Health Blog

Caregiving With Purpose has finished in the top 20 the past 2 years, and this year I hope it finishes in the top 3. As I write this it’s number 5, due to the support of readers, fans, family and colleagues.

The contest runs through January 15, 2015 and it’s possible to vote twice in a 24 hour period: once on Facebook and once on Twitter. I’m asking you to vote for Caregiving With Purpose. If you have an account on both Facebook and Twitter, please vote on both. Vote every day of you can, if not as often as you can. Click here to vote now.

Help get the message of hope and community to caregivers so they no longer feel isolated and alone. The wonder of the Internet is it’s available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week… even on weekends and holidays.

To your healthy and happy caregiving,

Dr. Ina

Ina Gilmore MD

Founder www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com

Ambassador of Caregiving on www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

Purple Angel Global Ambassador for Dementia Awareness

P.S. Please help raise awareness by voting often at www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com/vote , which redirects you to the Healthine voting page.

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September 12, 2014

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

Who Wants to Join This Alzheimers Giveaway?

Find out about giveaway of a copy of novel about Alzheimers disease: An Absent Mind by Eric Rill at CaregivingWithPurpose.com for World Alzheimer’s Day.

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August 11, 2014

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

National Family Caregiver Month: Recognizing Alzheimers Caregivers

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July 29, 2014

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

How Can Knitting Patterns Lead to Balance in Life and Caregiving?

The first knitted dishcloth patterns I created were when caring for my mother Clara.

She liked cotton knit or crochet dishcloths, because they fit her hands better than woven ones. And the handmade ones also absorb water better.

A couple of years ago I made one for Valentine’s Day, and last year submitted it to the 2015 Day by Day Knitting Calendar. It along with my mitten Christmas tree ornament pattern were accepted.

2015 Knitting Calendar and Patterns

My writing knitting patterns started when my life was out of balance. While considered part time, my position was 24/7 when my partner was off. Most of the time, I covered weekends and some nights. When he was on vacation, I was the sole partner. And caring for Clara who was in her 80s with more than one medical condition meant there was little time for caring for myself.

Balance in life seemed unreachable. Knitting and quilting were ways of bringing balance into my life and caregiving. I could knit and create patterns for things for Clara. Like dishcloths since she preferred the handmade ones to woven store ones.

She loved handmade Christmas ornaments, so using leftover sock yarn to knit ornaments was fun. Soon knit socks and even mittens graced the tree.

And slowly, balance edged back into my life. Time for things that were important but not urgent or emergencies. With knitting again, I relearned how to relax, and found other ways to feel as good. Clara enjoyed using my projects, and supervising their creation. As long as she was able, we made quilts together. She preferred the quilting, so I pieced them for her.

Is your life out of balance?

There’s a natural easy way to rebalance your life and keep it in balance. David Sheldon CPC, Health & Wellness Coach and I have a free teleseminar explaining this process on Tuesday August 5, 2015 at 8 PM Eastern called “How to Transform Caregiving From Burden to Blessing”. You will discover:

  • The true nature and source of these negative emotions
  • A Universal Law to easily change them and shift your perceptions
  • A simple yet powerful tool you can use every day that transforms lives

Join us to transform your life.

Reserve my seat now

See you there!

Dr. Ina

Ina Gilmore, MD Founder www.CaregivingWithPurpose.com and www.TheKnittingYarn.com
Ambassador of Caregiving, www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com
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July 15, 2014

| by Ina Gilmore, M.D. ("The Knitting Dr.")

How Do Words and Technology Affect Your Treatment of Elders?

Many people treat their elders differently.

And it often starts with words.

When I was a medical student, my dad impressed upon me how he and his peers hated it when doctors would introduce themselves formally, yet use the first name of the patient they were addressing. And it often came off as condescending to the patients. So one thing I strove to do was to refer to patients more formally than many of my colleagues. Unless I knew the patients very well and had their permission to use their first names.

What do you think of when you hear the term “elders”? And the term “the elderly”?

Most people think of elders as a term of respect, and may think of a wise older person. The term “elderly” often implies frailty, weakness and illness.

Do you consider using a walker or a wheelchair a disability or just different?

Choosing words can make a tremendous difference.

Robert Michael Hensel says, “I don’t have a dis-ability, I have a different-ability.”

Can you see how that changes the perspective and the energy of the situation?

One implies weakness and frailty while the other is just different. Like being left or right-handed. At one time left-handed was considered an imperfection; today it’s recognized as just different.

Why Are the Disabled and Elderly Treated Differently?

The following article is one that explains how mobile assisted technology may change how those who need the technology are treated. The article is included in its original form, including the terms “disabled” and “elderly.”

How the Disabled and Elderly Are Treated Differently – Experts Weigh In

For too long, society allowed older adults and persons with disabilities to be defined by what they could not do. But tireless advocacy from individuals and organizations have empowered a new generation to celebrate the achievements and capabilities of disabled individuals, rather than dwelling on their perceived limitations.

There’s still a lot of work to be done, but a look back to yesteryear shows how much progress we have made as a society. It wasn’t too long ago that President Franklin Delano Roosevelt had to conceal his disability because the idea that the most powerful leader in the world needed mobility assistance was unthinkable.

Today, we are more likely to applaud a person’s perseverance and will to achieve in spite of the obstacles, than we are to consider a disability to be a sign of weakness. This steadfast resolve, coupled with the wonders of modern technology, has allowed millions of capable people to realize independence, self-sufficiency and opportunity that may have been denied years prior.

But have technological advancements begun outpacing society’s perceptions and acceptance of individuals who rely on tools like mobility assistance devices? Despite the progress that has been made over the decades, what remains to be conquered?

How can we continue to progress?

To help us answer those questions, we’ve asked a group of experts in the field to share their thoughts on this matter of critical importance to society.

These are journalists, senior care experts and authors who are touched by disability on daily basis. We’d like to thank our experts for sharing their thoughts, and we are privileged to present their responses here.


Barbara McVickerBarbara McVicker, award-winning author and national speaker

Barbara McVicker is an eldercare expert, national speaker, author of three award winning books, and she recently launched her PBS-TV special Stuck in the Middle: caring for Mom and Dad. Barbara provides a lifeline for the Boomer Generation who are stuck in the middle of kids, career, and taking care of aging parents. She has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, CNN, NPR, FOX, NBC, and others.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

I believe that people who aren’t disabled are very fascinated by the high tech devices available for mobility assistance. Whether you’re talking about people coming back from wars, or those who have lost their mobility due to everything from diabetes to stroke, etc. – I don’t think there’s prejudice today. In fact, I think that people tend to stand back and watch because we’re fascinated that someone who would ordinarily have no mobility can, with technology, do things that some never thought they could do independently.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

I think it’s going to become more and more extraordinary. We’re on the cusp of understanding so much more about how our brains and muscles communicate with each other. And I think in the near future, people who we would’ve dismissed as thinking they would be bed or wheelchair bound are going to have limitless opportunities in new technology. It’s an exciting time for people who have limited mobility, and people are going to be able to live much more easily on their own.

From my standpoint, one of the biggest problems for elderly and disabled people is isolation. Isolation not only takes quality of life, but it reduces its longevity. With my field, it’s very apparent in the elderly; that if they become isolated, this is what happens to them. All of this technology is going to make is so that these people do not have to be isolated – it will improve their quality of life. I am excited about these changes, and with how rapidly they’re going to be implemented.


John QuinnJohn Quinn, 20-year Navy Veteran and disability advocate born with cerebral palsy

John W. Quinn was born in Detroit, Michigan in April 1962 with cerebral palsy. One of eight children, John also had a strong desire to serve his country. So, in spite of his partial paralysis, two different sized feet, and the inability to walk prior to the age of four, John joined the United States Navy in January 1982 specializing in administration. He did it while keeping his condition a complete secret out of a deep desire to wear the uniform of his nation. Throughout his distinguished twenty-year career, he has sailed around the world on aircraft carriers, battleships, destroyers, and is a plank owner (founding member) of SEAL Team THREE. Senior Chief Quinn is the author of Someone Like Me, An Unlikely Story of Challenge and Triumph Over Cerebral Palsy. John makes his home in Tucson.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

We have a society which judges people very quickly. They see someone who stands different, walks different; or has to use a power chair, a breathing device, or a roller, whatever it might be. They automatically think that that person does not have the ability or cannot do the job. And we need to move past that in our society. We need to look past the disability to find ability.

I have several friends that have disabilities which require mobility device. Just seeing them come into a room, you can see the look on peoples’ faces when they come by. It’s like a feeling of sympathy – my friends don’t ask for it, you know? They don’t want sympathy. They want the opportunity to show what they can do. I don’t experience this as much myself since my palsy is relatively mild, but when people notice my mild limp, they come up and ask me, “What’s wrong with you?”

Well, nothing’s wrong with me. I’m exactly how I was made. Nobody knew about my cerebral palsy throughout my entire 20 year career. Nobody knew until my book came out. I would have loved to have told the truth about my condition from the beginning. It would have made my life and my military career much easier. Nobody should ever have to keep that a secret in order to live a life that they want to.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

Advancements in technology just give people a better opportunity to show off their talents, and to show what they can do. It’s all about giving people the freedom to live the life that they want for themselves. Whether you want independence, the ability to work, and everything else to live a full, productive life. Technology will play a great role in that moving forward.

I’m fortunate to have a mild disability and not have to use assisted mobility. But I think it’s sometimes an issue of pride to not use assisted mobility technology, where somebody might not think they need assistance when it would make their lives easier. Maybe breaking down that barrier and showing people what’s out there would be a big benefit to society.


Kathy BirkettKathy Birkett, Co-Founder of Knowledge Connection, LLC and Operator/publisher of Senior Care Corner

Kathy is Senior Care Corner’s expert on the lives and care of senior adults, expertise she has gained through over 25 years working with seniors, families and other caregivers in both her professional and personal lives. Kathy has worked with seniors in their homes as well as in nursing homes, assisted living facilities, rehabilitation and hospital settings.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

Our older adults who have a disability and are dependent on assistive devices for their safe mobility face the same barrier that younger disabled individuals do—access. Despite governmental mandates of accessibility, many buildings, sidewalks, events and transportation are not easily maneuvered by someone using an assistive mobility device. This inability to get in and out of places where they want to go will limit them from doing all the things they wish to do. This will inevitably lead to a lack of independence.

We also see older adults buying assistive devices intended to improve mobility from a variety of places such as drugstores or mass retailers due to ease of purchase or convenience which are not properly fitted for them. Using a device that is not designed for their use can make them unsafe, just the opposite of what they intended. Getting a device checked by a professional for proper settings and fit is important no matter where they are purchased.

Another concern for older people who use mobility devices can be getting into and out of a bathroom quickly especially if they are alone. Older buildings are not designed for wheelchairs or walkers even if retrofitted for accessibility due to doorway widths and bumpy thresholds which can be hard to traverse. When an older person is trying to navigate in and out of public areas with their mobility devices, other people who are not as understanding as they could be can get angry waiting for them to move faster. They don’t fully realize the difficulty of using a device and can get frustrated with the older person.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

Medical advances such as cataract surgery, hearing aid technology and joint replacement improvements have helped many seniors stay independent for longer periods of time. Future improvements in these areas can continue to improve a senior’s ability to age in place.

Mobility devices that are lighter, easier to manipulate in and out of buildings, use more advanced materials that are comfortable and easier to carry with them when traveling will help older adults stay connected in their communities. Technology in the future may increase the potential to replace failed joints with an even better option, robotics may change the face of mobility, and smartphone apps could give more information about accessible friendly areas in the community to make the outing easier for all involved.


Carol BursakCarol B. Bursack, author and consultant on senior care

Over the span of two decades author, columnist and speaker Carol Bradley Bursack cared for a neighbor and six elderly family members. Because of this experience, Bradley Bursack created a portable support group – the book “Minding Our Elders: Caregivers Share Their Personal Stories.” Her sites, www.mindingourelders.com and www.mindingoureldersblogs.com include helpful resources as well as links to direct support. Bradley Bursack is a newspaper columnist and an eldercare consultant who also writes on caregiving and senior issues for several national websites.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

What I witness the most is that, particularly with elders and when someone is in a wheelchair, people tend to yell as if they are hard of hearing.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

I’m not sure anything but educating the public can help with this issue, however with the rate technology is advancing, it’s possible that some form of informing others of the special needs that should be addressed with this particular person may be of help.


Cathleen CarrCathleen Carr, founder of CertifiedCare and elder advocate

Cathleen V. Carr, JD, Msc.D, is the founder and executive director of CertifiedCare. Dr. Carr, an ordained minister, is a national leader in the fight against elder abuse and neglect and a recognized Geriatric Care Specialist and lawyer in the areas of wills, trusts, probate, elder law and elder caregiving. Her extensive background, with over 25 years of experience, covers many specialties including healthcare, law, business and non-profit social action. Her personal background and professional expertise helped to shape a certification program with the highest standards in the elder caregiving field.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

I have noticed elderly and disabled individuals are perceived as being more in control of their daily well-being; are treated with more dignity due to being less dependent; are perceived as being more intelligent; and are regarded as being more mainstream rather than marginalized.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

I foresee an increase in positive and constructive ways, if technology is embraced and adapted to by all concerned, meaning the general public as well as members of the healthcare team. There is a danger, though, of the perceived need for less human interaction and too much reliance on technology, and that is not necessarily desirable, in general.


Carol MarakCarol Marak, author on senior care

Carol Marak is a writer and content broadcaster on senior care news. A dedicated senior care writer with an intimate curiosity of what matters beyond adulthood, she does research to find answers to tough concerns: housing, aging and health, staying safe and independent, planning long-term, paying for care, connecting socially, and balancing worry and love for family. Find Carol at AssistedlivingFacilities.org or CareBuzz.com.

How have you witnessed elderly and disabled individuals treated differently due to their use of mobility assistance technology?

This hits hard on me. Individuals living with mobility issues, whether young or old, are treated differently in my eyes. Seeing first-hand with my dad living with mobility issues in older adulthood needing a walker and a wheelchair, he was pushed aside. He felt it was a bother to some due to needing more attention and help with opening doors, finding a placement (in wheelchair) at church and elsewhere so that he didn’t disrupt the flow of pedestrian movement, and especially difficult during shopping events or in restaurants.

There was an attitude of dismissal from others, but that could’ve been my acute awareness to protect my dad. He was much shorter in the wheelchair and difficult for some to make eye contact or bend down and forward to acknowledge him.

How do you foresee this changing with technological advancements in the field?

Technological advancements are helping people run in the Olympics, so there’s clear hope that older adults such as my dad will have access to devices that help them feel normal again.


“This interview was put together and provided by Cheryl Swansong; you can read the original article at
How the Disabled and Elderly Are Treated Differently – Experts Weigh In“

Shifting energy is an important part of moving caregiving from burden to blessing.

When a disability is seen as a “different-ability” it’s no longer a handicap. Instead it becomes simply a way of doing things differently.

In the past differences like being left-handed were often viewed with suspicion. Yet being left or right-handed or ambidextrous is something you’re born with and can’t change. Assuming a long life, eventually everyone will be considered “an elder.” It doesn’t mean there is a disability, just doing things differently. Maybe wearing glasses or a hearing aid, walking with a cane or using a wheelchair. Or maybe needing none of those things.

The “why” people are treated differently is as unique as each individual. Yes sometimes it’s a misunderstanding or hate. It can also be due to embarrassment about not knowing how the person wants to be treated.

Changing disability to “different-ability” and “elderly” to “elder” is a start in shifting your caregiving energy. You can learn more in our FREE monthly workshops. Click here to attend the next one.

To your healthy and happy caregiving.

Dr. Ina

Ina Gilmore, M.D.

Founder, CaregivingWithPurpose

Ambassador of Caregiving, www.HowToLiveOnPurpose.com

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